DESTROYING Limiting Decisions

I was asked to coach a client this week who was sure he required some work on releasing his father. After some discussion I felt that it was not appropriate to release his father but to discuss some of the DECISIONS this man had made around men in his life including his father and his Grandfather.

Even though 95% of our development is given to us in the first 7 years of our life by others, we begin to develop our frontal lobe or consciousness from the age of three or four. Through years of coaching, I have found that most people made amazing DECISIONS at that young age that still affect them in their later life. A great example of this is our phobias. You see a phobia is simply a decision that you held on to and focused on until it became your reality. It’s no different than a Limiting Decision.

This man as a boy decided to model his father, who modelled his father. Both the Grandfather and the father died young, so now this man feels he is “running out of time” and is blaming his father. The fear is real, however it has little to do with the father and a whole lot to do with the DECISION the boy made around being like his father.

When the client realised what he had done, the colour in his face completely changed because now there was a way out. We did a variety of processes from Quantum Linguistics and Decision Destroying techniques to “taking your power back”, creating your own path if the path you were on is running out of space and time. The end result was a complete turn around in energy and he leaped down the stairs and out to create his new world that is his own.

It was on that night that I realised just how these decisions we make affect people and hold them back. I became even more excited to be travelling the world assisting people to destroy the decisions that are no longer serving them and assist them to create the path that empowers them to show their real potential.