Love and Friendship…our highest Vibration despite our similarities and differences.

I was out power walking my dogs as I do every morning and I ran into a daughter of one of my friends. She tells me that her Dad is not doing so well as his cancer further takes over his body and her mum’s tumour is not so bad and I start thinking that it’s been exactly 12 months since we all got together for dinner because we just let “stuff” get in the way. Our friendship had taken a back seat and yet we all meant so much to each other.

So I rallied the troups and within 24 hours we all met at a local restaurant and laughed and joked, listened and spoke about this stage of life that we are all in. As I always do, I found myself admiring these people and the way we all interacted and mostly laughed the night away. I saw men hugging men, women hugging women and of course everything in between. The love and friendship and the respect we shared could not be mistaken. We had all been friends since our boys were 6 years old and joined the soccer team and that was 21 years ago.

We heard stories of some of the sons travelling the world while some were starting families and many grandparent stories came to the forefront. Others were involved in their careers and some just “getting on with what life had dealt them”.

I got thinking about how similar and yet how different we all were and yet together we became an instant support group for a couple seemingly doing it tough. I know from studying the mind and the brain that beginning from six months in utero an infant’s brain is following a unique combined genetic pattern of pre-wired synaptic connections and we begin to assemble and organise portions of our parents unique combined genetic blueprint. We therefore may inherit the emotional and behavioural tendencies of our parents. As different as we all seem to be, we tend to think generally similar thoughts, perform related behaviours and demonstrate comparable emotional states as our parents.

Joe Dispenza DC in “Evolve Your Brain” says that while we essentially seem to inherit some of the neurological wiring of our parents, the sum of the total synaptic connections encompass only gross personality traits, and because every person receives a one-of-a-kind genetic inheritance, we have a quality and characteristic that is different from every other human being. Every person’s patterns of nerve cell clusters are unique allowing each person to think differently from each other”

However, “while we are very different from each other in some respects, we tend to process data through our senses from the environment in a similar fashion. Because we share the same anatomy neurologically, biologically and structurally, we will therefore have various types of our genetics encoded in the exact same region of our neocortex and we therefore share relatively similar characteristics common to all of us”

So while I could clearly recognise the differences in all the friends that had gathered together to support our friends, the similarities of sharing friendship, love, respect and support was freely given by everyone. EVERYTHING CAME BACK TO LOVE.  Joe Dispenza says “Love is a powerful motivator. We must bond with a pattern of thinking that repeatedly inspires, enlivens and heals us” good health to you all.